My mind’s eye often sees things my normal eyes don’t see. That’s how I saw the little girl. The one hunched in a corner as if she wanted to fade into the non-color of the light beige wall and crawl into her soul. Apprehensive eyes scanned the room, searching for nothing in particular, except maybe an escape route. Her hair was black as a night without stars or moon and no night light, straight enough to make you wonder if it would surrender if you took it in hand and tried to make it bend. Her ears poked through its thinness. I could tell it was clean, though. Homemade cut. I liked her right from the start of looking at her. I knew that what I saw with my eyes was not what my mind saw in that child and I wanted my mind to figure out the problem and fix it.
That girl dredged up another child from many years earlier, before as much compassion as comes with age. A small girl, I saw hunched in the bed of a pickup truck with a bleeding dead deer for companion. The huge white-turned-muddy Dodge RAM rumbled at a red light while I sat in my quiet blue Toyota behind it watching the deer and the girl, listening to the beer-drinking men catcalling every woman-driven car that sped past them, the way drunken men do. A tiny bony body, blonde hair mussed and tangled, not washed in who knows when, her face trying to hide itself against knobby knees as she wrapped her skinny arms around her skinned and bruised up legs. Shame flared at me that day … hers, and mine.
Some woman who lives in my soul and who screams at times for no reason it seems, this day raged so loud my mind almost burst like a balloon stuck with a pin and I wanted to ram that truck and steal that child, take her home to bathe and put clothes on her that were not torn and dirty. Even with that screaming soul within pleading with me, I waited for the light to change so I could get her out of mind because she reminded me of another little girl somewhere else at some other time. Besides, she looked like death about to happen, or death warmed over as my mother used to say, and death scared me.
Suddenly, the little girl lifted her head and stared straight into my eyes, just before the light changed and that truck escaped in roaring thunderous meanness, leaving me alone with her words. Eye contact lasted just long enough for me to hear what she wanted me to hear, not with my ears which are always hearing but never hearing, but with the essence of who I am, have always been. She knew me.
In her eyes, I heard an orchestra … horns and tubas blaring out to let me know that she was made of brass and not of summer-burned and withered grass. That is when I learned that my mind and my mind’s eye, though one, and the same, were not the same at all.
On the surface, had anyone else taken the time to look at either of those tiny figures of nothingness (as far as the world is concerned), they would have seen the same thing I first saw with two dismayed eyes. Scared little girls, abused in so many ways, by so many people, they could not tell you how, or when, or why they lived those lives, even if you asked them. Feeling lower than a coward ever feels, beneath the feet of everybody else in the world, shy and downcast, alone and lonely, confused at life, and maybe even a little bit angry; that is what we see and pity.
That is not what they are.
My mind’s eye saw on both those precious faces, brazen: bold and without shame, made of brass. I remembered that we use brass for decorating, especially at Christmastime when love surrounds and all is well and there are no little girls in corners hiding or in the beds of trucks with death, depending on adults to keep them safe, to give them love and peace, pretty dresses and shiny dancing shoes. At least, we pretend not within our sphere of influence or protection.
We use brass because of its bright gold-like appearance. It is beautiful and it shines. We use brass for locks and gears, bearings, doorknobs, casings and valves — low friction needs that protect us. We use brass in zippers for closure and in situations where it is important that sparks not be struck, in fittings or tools around explosive gases. It is powerful, but it is safe. We use brass as the metal of choice for musical instruments like the trombone, tuba, trumpet, tenor horn, French horn … the brass within an orchestra.
We use brass for candlesticks. Heat will not destroy them.
I used to check on my little girls during storms to make sure the wind was not frightening them. They would often have either stuffed animals, or real dogs, tucked in bed with them, sometimes pretend-reading to them. They were touching scenes … nothing like the little black-haired girl in the corner or the sunny-haired girl in the truck.
For some reason, though, those pictures of my girls brought those girls to mind. I felt like crying when I realized that my girls were the violins in my orchestra. My orchestra has no brass. It quietly plays without the timbre of metal and, though I have always thought that was important, the way our lives should be, my orchestra misses something very important without its brass section. Crescendo!
As I would stand silently and gaze upon my violins, my eyes touching one by one onto clear eyes, clean hair, pure skin without a bruise or cut, something deep inside softly whispered to me … you are the brass; you are those little girls in the corner and the truck; you always have been; you always will be. Memories may play hide and seek for a time, and to suit your life’s purposes, but they will never leave you alone. You are their very best friend. They need you to remember them, so be their friend.
Suddenly, from out of nowhere, music began to play deep inside me somewhere, far away in the distant places of my soul, so that I could barely hear it, but I could feel it. It was an orchestra, softly building in intensity but not in harshness. Then, I heard it, clear and true, pure and real: the brass section. It was the most beautiful music I had ever heard!
I lit the brass candlesticks that waited for me on my dining room table tonight, just to spend some time with them while I listened to the music of the orchestra and remembered a little girl so many years ago, who stared out a window and wondered about her life. I hope I am barely brazen enough that the heat will not destroy me. Either way, the crescendo grows!